What I really want for Mother’s Day

I want to live in a society that values and supports moms every day of the year. I want moms to be able to make the choices that work for them without having to deal with judgement, shame, inaccurate information, or systemic barriers. I want a culture of care and compassion for parents in allContinue reading “What I really want for Mother’s Day”

Five Things to Stop Feeling Guilty About

Being a mom can sometimes feel like navigating a minefield. We are constantly bombarded by warnings, opinions, advice, and judgement about everything from our appearance to our child’s behavior. It can feel impossible to make the “right” choice or miserable trying to please everyone but ourselves. We so badly want what is best for ourContinue reading “Five Things to Stop Feeling Guilty About”

Going Back to Work After Maternity Leave

I recently hosted a Story Share meetup with the topic of going back to work after maternity leave. Four moms of children ages 5 months-14 years shared their experiences of having a job while also having a family. There were some great reflections and tips shared with the expectant parents in attendance, and a fewContinue reading “Going Back to Work After Maternity Leave”

Introducing My Infant Concierge

I am excited to be offering a new service for the new year! My Infant Concierge is for new and expectant parents who feel overwhelmed by too much information and unsure of themselves in this new stage of life. It’s like having a doula in your pocket, to turn to whenever you need! Maybe youContinue reading “Introducing My Infant Concierge”

What is Mother’s Intuition and why don’t I feel it?

What is mother’s intuition, anyway? (And why don’t I feel it?) Sometimes it comes easy. We “just know” what we need to do and we do it. But the concept of mother’s intuition or the encouragement to “trust your gut” can also cause a lot of frustration, especially if you tend towards anxiety and overthinking,Continue reading “What is Mother’s Intuition and why don’t I feel it?”

What is mother’s intuition, anyway? (And why don’t I feel it?)

Sometimes it comes easy. We “just know” what we need to do and we do it. But the concept of mother’s intuition or the encouragement to “trust your gut” can also cause a lot of frustration, especially if you tend towards anxiety and overthinking, like me. Add in all of those postpartum hormones, sleep deprivation,Continue reading “What is mother’s intuition, anyway? (And why don’t I feel it?)”

Six Strategies for Handling Unwanted Advice

There’s nothing like having a baby for becoming an advice magnet. From the moment your pregnancy becomes known, everyone from strangers on the sidewalk, to store clerks, to your great aunt Mabel has something to say what you should or should not be doing, often accompanied by horror stories of what could happen if youContinue reading “Six Strategies for Handling Unwanted Advice”